Have you ever had a long distance relationship (LDR)? Long distance relationships have been a permanent fixture in my life. So much so that it possibly qualifies me to be an expert on the subject..lol. I have learned the science of these relationships to the point that distance doesn't become an issue anymore...often enough for the people it is still an issue. The question of whether one can be fully satisfied while in a LDR is always a pivotal issue. I've learnt that in true relationships thee question of distance is not matter at all. The most important element of the relationship is the emotional and supportive aspects. If the person is that valuable to you then there wouldn't be the question of emotional satisfaction once communication is sufficient.
Specifically, for men healthy relations consist of slot hectic, deep seated physical contact, (read with some sarcasm) BELIEVE IT OR NOT this is how most men express their feelings!!! How many times a guy runs through your mind naked is directly proportional to the strength and presence of the relationship. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. It's how we were made. Don't get me wrong there is a great difference between lust and passion, lust starts in your crotch but passion starts and is fulfilled in the mind.
Specifically, for men healthy relations consist of slot hectic, deep seated physical contact, (read with some sarcasm) BELIEVE IT OR NOT this is how most men express their feelings!!! How many times a guy runs through your mind naked is directly proportional to the strength and presence of the relationship. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. It's how we were made. Don't get me wrong there is a great difference between lust and passion, lust starts in your crotch but passion starts and is fulfilled in the mind.
So since It takes so much physicality to have a healthy relationship then how can LDR last, especially among gay men? Answer: It is emotional weakness that ends a relationship not physical dissatisfaction. A LDR won't work among immature people and most importantly one has to be able to make the best of the time they have with that person. If you don't satisfy them within the time they have with you then your leaving the gap open for cheating. So make the time and make sure you treat them in a way that they'll never leave because 5 mins with you is worth more than an hour with someone else.
Don't forget, communication is KEY....if you can't communicate then you don't stand a chance..save yourself the heart break...
Special K
